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RESPECT HER

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A WOMAN NEEDS RESPECT

There is nothing more complex and special in this world than a woman, she is full of mystery and wonders that makes them special and one of a kind.

Respect is a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievement.  I believe that most men should have more respect for a woman and I also believe that all respect goes both ways when men and women decide to be together and women should not hit the men but most importantly the man should not lift a hand towards a lady because men are so much stronger than women. For example hitting women is wrong in every way in any way. There are men that beat women and I begin to wonder why will a man hit his woman or hit a woman? If you are a man that hits women then you need to be locked up for just 42 hours and be put in a place where you can see how it feels like to beat. Women are precious gift from God; therefore women should be treated like a queen. A man that loves and respe…

AN INSPIRED MAN

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 INSPIRE YOUR MAN TO GREATNESS

I  appreciate a woman who loves to see her man succeed . Every man has potentials in him that can make him great; they are like seeds that need to be watered. Inspiring your man to be the best he can be is not the same as abandoning your own potentials as an individual; it just means you are making him the best so he can encourage you to be the best too. An inspired man feels the freedom to reach the fullest potential of the man God has created him to be. Did you know that big tough man of yours longs to be admired? He desires for someone to think he’s brave and brilliant, loving and logical, tough and tender handsome and humorous, masculine and magical. That’s the stuff of your man’s dreams. What does it mean to adore your man? Basically, it means to love him with all your heart, and let him know about it. George Eliot once said, "I like not only to be loved, but to be told I am loved." Do you want to see your man’s face light up like a full moon?…

ROSE OF THE LILY

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A REFLECTION ON BEAUTY Beauty is a cherished gift from God to this broken world. It gives us a glimpse into the mind of the Creator and reveals His tenderness. In a unique way, beauty belongs to women. Is it a mistake to value beauty in a woman? I say no! in His affection for His daughters, God bestowed on woman the gift of beauty and equipped us to perpetuate beauty. A woman would rather be incredibly beautiful to her man, a woman wants to be desired and prized by her husband as the most beautiful woman he knows. For beauty, it is the domain of women, beauty belongs to women. Men and women can be smart, capable, industrious, talented, clever, etc. but only women are beautiful. Men are to be handsome, strong, noble, charming, warrior-protectors, but they’re not beautiful. That is God’s gift to women; it’s not a coincidence that GOD CHOSE WOMEN TO BE CO-CREATOR of life with Him because life is so beautiful. It is further proof of God’s tenderness and affection for us; it is evidence that…
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PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE There are many of you who are searching for love.
Marriage is a calling; a holy covenant between God, your spouse, and yourself. Many times we become so focused on finding the right person that we forget that in the meantime our job is to BECOME the right person. You wouldn’t walk into your final year exams without studying. Likewise, you don’t walk into marriage blindfolded, In order for your marriage to be all that God designed it to be, make the decision to start preparing yourself NOW. Marriage takes work! I am talking about 24/7/365 work! The great thing about the marital covenant is that when you give it your all, you can live “happily ever after” Ask God to help you become the wife you are called to be, even if you are not already in that position. To us, waiting may seem like wasting. But to God, waiting is preparation. He has a big work to do in both your heart and the heart of your future spouse before He calls you both together. With that being said, ther…

SEXUAL ABUSE

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I THOUGHT IT WAS MY FAULT


My father used to touch me in a horrible way when mum was at work at night. I was 10 years old when it started. I felt so sick when I knew it was a night that mum had to work, worrying about what would happen. I was tens and stressing out all the time.
I was scared to tell anyone, I thought it was my fault too because I didn’t stop it. He used to say I shouldn’t tell anyone and that mum would kick me out if she found out. I didn’t know what to do. I didn’t want anyone at school finding out, because I felt like they all look down on me. This has been going on for the last four (4) years. This year we had a health class, and someone came to our school to talk about abuse. I knew that what they were talking about was what was happening to me. At the end of the class I just sat there when the bell rang, I felt like my head was about to explode.  The teacher asked me if I was okay. I avoided the question for a while, but now it must have shown on my face. Then everyt…

WHO IS A LADY

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WHO IS A LADY? A lady is a polite or formal way of referring to a woman, a woman of good social position. According to these simple definitions, a lady is the epitome of womanhood. a lady is someone who makes everyone around her feel loved and respected no matter where she is. (1 Timothy 4:12)Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity). A lady is a someone who brings souls to GOD rather than take them away from GOD. A lot of girls who addresses themselves or see themselves as a Lady cannot define their main potentials as a LADY they just want to be called LADIES without knowing what it takes to be Lady. QUALITIES OF LADY 1. Femininity is the number one thing that makes a lady. The fact that you are a female, and all other things that come together to form the female body is found on you and makes you a lady. So don't underestimate your body because it makes you the unique lady you are. And the rib that t…

SELF IDENTITY (WHO AM I)

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SELF IDENTITY (WHO AMI)
Self Identity is the perception or recognition of one's characteristics as a particular individual, especially in relation to social context.

Who you are is yourself identity, the way you look at yourself and your relationship to the world. Understanding this, allows you to examine who you are and more importantly create who you want to be. Who I am is a question everyone at some point will ask themselves, certainly a question many organizations, religious and self gurus have attempted to provide an answer to on your behalf. It is my opinion that our understanding of our roles in the world and the universe,  and how to influence it have come a long way in the last decades of humanity.  It is nice to think that everything in the Universe was created for you because you are special.
Component of self identity
a. Self identity, the way you look at yourself and your relationship to the world. Understanding this, allows you to examine who you are and more importantly …